Dealings in the Blace family, consisting of Ryan and myself, 2 young girls, 1 dog, and 3 cats.
Thursday, December 29, 2011
"Mommy, tzo tzo"
Monday, December 19, 2011
Chinglish
Sunday, December 4, 2011
Things my phone are...
1. Toddler toy
2. GPS
3. Camera
4. Weather channel
5. Web browser
6. Alarm clock
7. Planner
8. Calculator
9. Bank ATM
10. Phone
Wednesday, November 23, 2011
Thursday, November 17, 2011
First Hair Cut
Wednesday, November 16, 2011
It's For My Sanity
I feel even more guilty about downsizing the cats. (Shh... they don't know yet.) At least they're staying somewhat in the "family". I'd get rid of Daisy too, but Ryan would divorce me.
Maybe if I wasn't so sleep deprived I would be more reasonable about cleaning and the cats, but it's driving me slowly insane.
Tuesday, November 15, 2011
Projectile... Puke.
Her acid reflux is getting better... or maybe I'm just more used to it. And since I don't spend the day with her, I don't notice as much. Plenty of spit ups still though, just not as much projectile.
Thursday, November 10, 2011
Sisterly Love
I hope she feels this way always.
Wednesday, November 2, 2011
Tuesday, October 25, 2011
A Day In The Life Of Luci
6:30AM - Check on Alex. Get back into bed.
8:30AM - Alex wakes up. Ryan gets her milk and gets her ready for the day. I gather everything that the kids need for daycare. Ryan takes Daisy out, and feeds her if he remembers. I get Hannah ready, which usually just means I transfer her from her crib to her car seat.
9:15AM - Load everyone into the car and off we go.
9:30AM - Drop Alex and Hannah off at Dawn's.
10:00AM - Arrive at work. Buy bad coffee from the cafeteria.
10:30AM - Pump. Crochet while pumping. It usually takes me 15-20 minutes from beginning to cleaning.
12:45PM - Pump.
1:30PM - Find something for lunch. Bad days is eating in the cafeteria. Good days are either I bring something or I have to drive out to get something.
4:00PM - Pump.
6:30PM - End of the work day.
7:00PM - Pick the girls up from Dawns.
7:30PM - Arrive at home. Ryan and Alex plays with Daisy for a few minutes.
7:30PM - 9:30PM - Snack for Alex. Ryan gives Alex a bath if she needs one. I give Hannah a bath if she needs one. Hannah gets a bottle, then nurses, then rocked to sleep. Alex gets a bottle while reading with Ryan laying on the floor on her big stuffed dog in her room. She picks the books from her shelf each time. The last book is read after she climbs into bed. Ryan tucks Alex, Pooh, Elmo, and Gogo (Clifford) into bed. He kisses each of them (multiple times), shut off the lights and leaves the room. Alex will either roll over and go straight to sleep or sing/play in her bed until she falls asleep.
9:30PM (sometimes as early as 8:30PM or as late as 10PM) - Ryan and I eat dinner.
10:00PM - 12:00AM - Clean bottles, gather stuff for the next day. TV, computer, crochet, shower, get ready for bed.
2:00AM - Nurse, burp, diapers, nurse. Pump optional. Check on Alex.
2:45AM - Back to bed.
(4:00AM - Nurse, burp, diapers, nurse. Pump optional. Check on Alex.) On bad nights, this timeslot occurs.
6:00AM - Start all over.
Life With Two Girls
I can't help but compare Hannah to Alex when she was a baby. She looks just like Alex at the same age... when her eyes are closed. They have very different looking eyes, but other than that... I showed a picture of Alex around 2 months old to my mom and she thought it was Hannah. I'm sure as they grow, they'll look different. Alex looks nothing like she did as an infant. Hannah is also a very pukey baby. Poor child pukes after every meal, and sometimes in between meals. The doctor said acid reflux is common in babies. Alex rarely puked as an infant. She puked more as a toddler. There's a load of laundry each day just from Hannah's changes. She's also a crier. Alex was a sleeper. She slept for the first 3 months of her life... but apparently preemies are usually sleepers. Not that Hannah doesn't sleep, she just doesn't sleep as much as Alex, especially during the day. Honestly, and I'm not sure if I should admit this publicly, but liking Hannah took a little bit more effort than with Alex. Of course I love the child, but with a toddler around that has so much personality, an unresponsive baby that requires so much work just can't compare. With that being said, she's growing so fast already and part of me can't wait until she gets to Alex's age. The other part doesn't want my last baby to grow up. I love her little doll like lips, especially when she's done nursing and the bottom lip is all pursed and stubborn looking. That's her signal that she doesn't want anymore and nothing I can do would make her open her mouth again until she ready. I have a feeling that she's going to be a cuddler... I'm very hopeful that is true. Alex was never a cuddler and I was very envious my friend Erica when her baby girl just snuggles up with her. Alex is much more of a cuddler now, not that she snuggles, but her openly affectionate hugs and kisses just melts my heart. You can't but help be happy with her.
I'm happy with two girls. I'm happy with where I am in my life.... though I could use a bit more sleep.
Sunday, October 16, 2011
Thursday, October 13, 2011
Monday, October 10, 2011
I Just Wanted A Good Family Picture...
Was it too much to ask?
I can't pass up a good deal... or at least what seemed like a good deal at the time. Livingsocial got me with a $25 deal for 5 photo sheets. Next time, I need to exercise better restraint. However, I'll be extra nice and caveat that with "Perhaps I should have planned it better." I had forgotten that the coupon was expiring. That out of the way, it was a borderline horrible experience. Stressful and poorly managed. We set our appointment on a Friday night at 7PM, the day that the coupon would expire on. That was the poorly planned part on my side. Ryan and I rushed out of work to get home in time to get the kids dressed and get to the mall in time for our time slot. We even got there early like they asked us too. It still took over an hour before they got to us... by this time, it was after 8PM. Alex is fussy and when she's fussy, she gets scared. What was she scared off? The backdrop cloths that they pulled down. And when she's tired and fussy, she's not going to smile. What she wanted was her sister. Oh... and I made the horrible mistake of forgetting her Pooh. At least we got one good picture of her with Hannah and a couple decent family photos. After our shoot, I told them I'll be back another day to look at the pictures, we had to go. The deal with 5 photo sheets of one picture and we also get a low-res CD. In the end, I forked over $75 more to get a high res CD. That's how they get you. It took way too much effort to only get one picture printed, I wanted the other pictures too. Was it worth it? That's still debatable. I've vowed to never do this again... at least not at Picture People. It was crowded, you're surrounded by crying babies, frazzled employees, and annoyed parents. You wait to take pictures regardless of appointments, you wait to look at pictures, and you wait to get your pictures. Perhaps I did it the better way by coming back another day to look at them... at least that breaks up the annoyance of continuous waiting.
On a side note. THANK YOU Kristen Self for taking Hannah's newborn pictures. You are amazing.
Thursday, September 22, 2011
Monday, September 12, 2011
Wednesday, September 7, 2011
Pognae (POH-G-NEH)
That's my new baby carrier. I haven't received it yet, but apparently it's a very popular carrier in Asia. Made in South Korea, by people who are of slight built for people with slight built. While I already have the Baby Bjorn and the Moby, I've been looking for a new one. The Bjorn, while it has quite a following I found it to be rather uncomfortable. The straps crisscrossed across the back but all the weight still ended up on top of my shoulders and I just didn't want to wear it as a result. The Moby Wrap is super comfortable and secure and I do like it for those reasons. However, it is 5 meters long... that's a lot of fabric to wrap around myself. I thought about shortening it, but it still had other issues. It's a hassle to put on and once it's on I don't want to take it off just because it's a pain to put on. As a result, it ends up wrapped around me even when the baby's not in it. I may use it more during colder weather since it keeps me nice and toasty, but during the summer... it was suffocating. I had Hannah in it when we went out for some errands last week, she seemed comfortable as she was completely passed out, but I was sweating like crazy. That's too bad since of all the carriers that I've tried, the Moby distributed the weight the best.
As I was talking to Karen about baby carriers, she told me that a friend of hers started the USA distribution branch of Pognae. With the discount (plus additional friends & family discount that Karen had) and the free return policy, I figure I might as well give it a try. I've heard a lot of good things about the Ergobaby carrier and this is supposed to be just like it, except slightly smaller. It was perfect since the size and bulk of the Ergo was an issue that held me back from purchasing it... and the $$$. It's rather expensive. Hopefully I'll like it.
Wednesday, August 31, 2011
My Baby Is No Longer A Baby
Monday, August 22, 2011
She's TWO!!!
Tuesday, August 9, 2011
The good news is that this is my last week of strict confinement. Come Monday I'll be 36 weeks and the Drs are happy. I still can't go trapezing around but there's no need to stop the contractions after that. Which mean hopefully the next time I go to the hospital, we're having a baby.
I think I'll treat myself to a pedicure next week.
Wednesday, August 3, 2011
Giving Credit Where Credit is Due
Anyhow, I've been cranking out adorable hats, even made a few for boys. They're not as fun to decorate, but still pretty good results if I do say so myself. Since I've been using other people's free patterns and work from those, here are the links to the patterns.
Deeply Textured Hat
I really like this pattern. I told Ryan that I really like this pattern cuz I can crank one out in no time. He's like, so you're mass producing them now? Must be the Chinese in you.... :)
Cluster Hat
Beary Cute Hat
I make a bunch of these a couple years ago. Again, super easy but takes a bit longer. How adorable was she?? :) Sooo chubby then :)
Open Rose
Flower 1
Naked Branch Leaf
Monday, August 1, 2011
Preemie Beanie
So here's the final product. Hopefully it's not too small, otherwise Alex's doll will have a new hat. I used my hand as a size comparison. When Alex was born her head was barely the size of my hand.
Stitchery - Baby Beanies
I've been crocheting up a storm. Baby hats to be specific. I was thinking about booties, but whoever actually wears them?? Been trying out different flower patterns too. In the end, the results are just too cute.
Latest creation. I love the flower and the color contrast.
Round 4 at the Hospital
We did do a really quick sono last night to check the baby's position. She down and ready for action. I'm also 0-1 dilated and 20% effaced. But that could also just depend on the dr checking me.
We were supposed to pick up Alex last night. :( I miss her. Looks like she's staying at my moms.
Hopefully no more hospital trips until the baby's out. The goal is 35 weeks, 36 or 37 would be better.
Thursday, July 28, 2011
July Update
We are 33 1/2 weeks now. My leave is over August 31st, and I have hormone shots until 36 weeks. My goal is 37 weeks, so hopefully Hannah will cooperate with us. Alex came at 35 weeks, but that's without the weekly hormone shots. So we'll see. I got the steroid shots already so the baby should be fine if she comes early. She's awfully active. I feel like a punching bag on the inside.
There were tons of activities outside my house this afternoon, actually my new neighbors house. The builder and a bunch of contractors were all over the place. I decided to get dressed and walk next door to meet the new occupants since they were moving some minor stuff in. They don't close until tomorrow, but pre signed today. Funny coincidence, they moved from the same exact neighborhood that we moved from in Odenton. Really nice young couple with a 3 year old and a 9 month old. I asked them if it were the gunshots that drove them to move. They knew exactly what I was talking about.
Anyway, having been confined the past month or so, just that little bit of exertion had a big affect on me. And now, after a cool shower I'm back in bed.
On another note, Alex has been at my sister's being watch by my mom. She's having a grand old time, what with her little cousin and aunts and uncles. they maintaining her sleep schedule which is good. And apparently being potty trained. She actually went in the potty yesterday! Maybe she'll be completely trained by the time she gets back... I can hope. :) but oh well, shes coming back this Sunday at least for a few days. I miss the little monster.
Thursday, July 21, 2011
30 Shots and Counting...
1 first tri blood draw
1 1 hour glucose
4 3 hour glucose
16 progesterone
4 terbutaline
1 IV
2 betametadone (steroids)
And probably a few more in the future. Good thing I'm not afraid of needles. Although I do hate the progesterone, steroids, and the terbs. They hurt!
Friday, July 15, 2011
Maggoty morning
I am still upset at Ryan for not coming home from work to take care of it. I realized that I'm being irrational but I don't care. I did take the trash out, although I'm still not sure if that's where they came from. I hope we have spare filters for my mini vacuum cuz that had to go. The kitchen rug had to go too.
My house isn't filthy, but the roomba did break... And I thought the floor being hairy was the only result.
Now I'm upstairs and am afraid to go downstairs, but I'm hungry.
I have guests coming tomorrow...
Thursday, July 7, 2011
Big Girl Bed
Night 1: We picked her up from Grandma's and she fell asleep on the way home. Woke up at 3AM. I gave her a bottle of milk while she laid on her stuffed dog on the floor where she was falling back to sleep. I transferred her to the bed and she was fussy for a few seconds, but she slept until morning.
Night 2: She did not want to stay in bed and was testing me with requests for hugs and sneakily scooting herself off the mattress. I'd repeatedly put lay her back down on her pillow until I finally gave up and just left the room. She cried for about 10 minutes before it was quiet. She stayed on the bed and slept till morning.
Night 3: She climbed into bed but didn't want to stay. I said good night to Pooh and her and left the room. She fussed for a few seconds but was quiet after that. I was pretty positive she got off the bed, but at least she was quiet. I went to check on her in a hour and she had fallen asleep with Pooh on the king sized pillows that I had placed on the floor next to her bed. I call this a success. :) She slept until morning.
Night 4: She climbed in herself and laid down. When I got up to leave the room, she was in the process of getting up. When I checked on her an hour later, she was passed out on her bed. Yay!
My daughter can get pretty cranky in the morning... unfortunately I think that's a trait she got from me...
Tuesday, July 5, 2011
Epic Morning
I'm exhausted. It's time for a nap.
Friday, June 24, 2011
After 2 Years
It might take me another couple years to get it matted and framed. Maybe I'll have it done by the time Alex is ready to move out to college...
Once Again...
Friday, June 17, 2011
Failed the Glucose Test
Wednesday, June 15, 2011
Talking... Sorta...
Friday, June 10, 2011
Sunday, June 5, 2011
Thursday, June 2, 2011
Tuesday, May 24, 2011
Thursday, May 12, 2011
Wednesday, May 11, 2011
Sassy Girl
I hope I didn't teach her to scowl like that... but I might have... I don't know where she learned to cross her arm tho. Do you think it's a learned trait? Or just something kids know?
Monday, May 9, 2011
Wednesday, April 27, 2011
Saturday, April 16, 2011
Sleepy Head
Friday, April 15, 2011
Wednesday, April 13, 2011
Alex Update
She understands quite a bit of words now... most of them in Chinese:
Chi bao bao - time to eat
Shui jiao jiao - time to sleep
Huan pian pian - diaper change
Nai nai - milk
Chi fan la - time to eat
Mou mou - Gently pet (the animals)
She can say:
Tzo tzo - dirty diaper
poo poo - dirty diaper
Daisy - Daisy
Daddy-ah - Daddy
Mami-ah - Mommy
Ma ma - Grand ma
Meimei-ah - little sister (a.k.a. cousin Keira)
Ta da (with a head nod) - Thank you
Pooh - Pooh... or Tigger
Uhoh - Whenever something drops
Saturday, April 9, 2011
Sleep Training... Again
Thursday, March 31, 2011
Teefies
Sent from my iPhone
Saturday, March 26, 2011
Saturday, March 19, 2011
Swinging
Thursday, March 10, 2011
Oreos
To Paci or Not To Paci?
Sunday, March 6, 2011
Pictures... or Lack There Of
Monday, February 21, 2011
Sunday, February 20, 2011
Saturday, February 19, 2011
Tuesday, February 15, 2011
Wednesday, February 9, 2011
Wednesday, January 12, 2011
Jinxed Myself
Monday, January 10, 2011
Tzo Tzo & More
Over the weekend I saw her pick up a small piece of something off the floor, walk over to the garbage in the kitchen, drop it in and continued on her way. My baby is growing up so fast!
We've reached a (huge) milestone in our sleeping habit. She has slept straight through the night with no waking or feeding for he past two weeks. Halleluia! Ok, so there was one night that I did have to give her a bottle, and another night where I had to soothe her back to sleep by rocking her ... But two nights out of two weeks. Those are good stats. I'll take it.
With that said, that doesn't mean that mommy isn't waking up in the middle of the night worrying about her being too cold, diaper too wet, or whatever else. Sigh...